Sunday, February 19, 2017

The Right Time For Love

When is the right time for love?

When I was sixteen, I was very confused about how far people of the opposite sex should go in touching each other before marriage.  I got all kinds of different answers, including that once they are in love, it is alright for them to engage in every act of sex.  Still, this did not seem right to me somehow.

There were three main churches in Prairie Grove at that time, and a daughter of each of the ministers of those churches was in my class. I really wanted to know when the Book of Truth (The Bible) said, that it was the right time for love, so I thought that surely one of their fathers could tell me.

I tended to be shy around anyone of authority at the time.  Still, it bugged me to see people my own age, including those who went to these churches, engaged in sex without being married.  So I finally gathered up my courage, called one of these ministers, and asked him what did the Book of Truth say about sex outside of marriage.  I really wanted to know when the right time for love was, so I could do what the Father of Truth (YHVH aka God aka THE LORD) wanted.

This minister answered me back in the milk toastiest voice that I have ever heard.  He told me, that it was up to every man to decide for himself what was right.  It did not seem right, but I thought that a minister of a church would know when the Book of Truth said, that it was the right time for love.

What I wish I had done, after he told me that it was up to me to decide what was right, was asked to speak to his daughter, so I could set up a time to meet with her, and try out his ideas with her.  I am pretty sure, that would have brought some clarity to him!  He might have even told me something closer to the truth, instead of giving me an answer, which would not offend any of the many fornicators in our town.

(This religious professional either did not know what the Book of Truth said about the subject, or did not have the courage to risk upsetting people by saying it.  Sadly, this is the case with the vast majority of religious professionals in America today.  This has been going on for a long time, and it is what makes the death of America certain.)

I should have gotten a second and third opinion from the other two ministers.  Now that I have became wiser with age, I am pretty sure that one of those two in particular, would have told me, when the Book of Truth said that it was the right time for love.  His church was not as popular as the other two churches, because he preached that people should live in holiness.

Instead, I was so totally disheartened by the answer of the minister that I had called, that I almost cried.  His answer made me feel totally hopeless.  How could I do what was pleasing to the Father of Truth, if the Book of Truth did not tell people when it was right time for love?

Fortunately, the Book of Truth does tell us when it is the right time for love in great detail.  It is not silent on this matter.  We do not have to do whatever we think is right, and hope that it is somehow in line with the unrevealed will of the Father of Truth.  The Book of Truth reveals His will in every matter, so we can know when is the right time for love.

So when is the right time for love?

There is no right time for love until a man and a woman are in the right partnership for love.   Even then, not every moment of every day is the right time for love.

Once a woman starts bleeding, like her monthly issuance of blood, then it is the wrong time for love, until at least seven days have passed (Leviticus 15:19).  If the the bleeding of her monthly issuance of blood has not stopped in seven days, then it is the wrong time for love as long as the bleeding continues (Leviticus 15:25).

If this wrong time for love starts during sex, a man is innocent of any wrong doing, because the monthly issuance of blood of his wife came upon him unexpectedly (Leviticus 15:24).  However, it is a serious sin for a man and his wife to engage in sex on purpose, when the monthly issuance of blood of his wife is plainly occurring (Leviticus 20:18).

This is the wrong time for love for a several reasons.

The first reason is, that the monthly issuance of blood comes from something that has died, and is decaying, - the uterine lining.  Everything associated with death or filth is to be avoided by the Children of Truth (those who obey The Father of Truth because they love Him) as much as possible.  This is what makes people not clean enough to be in the prescence of the Father of Truth, until they are cleansed from contact with whatever is unclean (Leviticus 15:13-15). The reason for this is simple.

The Spirits of Lies (devils aka demons aka unclean spirits aka gods) are associated with filthy things like tombs and pigs (Mark 5:2-13).  The Father of Lies (HaShatan aka Satan Aka The Devil) is the source of all death (John 10:10).  The Children of Truth are supposed to avoid anything that is associated with the Father of Lies (Ephesians 4:27).

The Children of Truth have left the kingdom of the Father of Lies to become part of the kingdom of the Father of Truth (Colossians 1:12-13).  The Father of Truth is the source of every good thing (James 1:17).  The Children of Truth are supposed to be holy like the Father of Truth (1 Peter 1:14-16).  The Children of Truth are supposed to be involved with things associated with life, because that reflects the nature of the Father of Truth (2 Peter 1:2-4).

So the monthly issuance of blood is associated with the Father of Lies, because it is filthy and comes from the death of the uterine lining.

This is the wrong time for love, because having sex during the monthly issuance of blood is like worshiping an idol (Ezekiel 18:5-6).  Every unclean act of sex like this comes from idolatry (Romans 1:21-24).  The Children of Truth are to avoid this unclean practice, because they worship the Father of Truth, instead of idols (Romans 6:17-19).  The Father of Truth commands His Children to have nothing to do with this unclean practice, or anything else that comes from idolatry (2 Corinthians 6:16-18).

The Father of Truth demands that the Children of Truth put an end to this unclean practice, just like He demands that they put an end to fornication, and lusting after someone who is not their spouse (2 Corinthians 12:21). The Children of Truth are not to continue in this unclean practice, since they are no longer ignorant of His ways (Ephesians 4:17-19).

Those who purposely participate in this uncleanness of having sex during this wrong time for love, will no more inherit His kingdom, any more than those who form wrong partnerships for love (Galatians 5:19-21).  Those who make themselves unclean with this unclean practice, will not have an inheritance in the kingdom of the Father of Truth and the Man of Truth, because the Father of Truth will pour out His wrath on those, who have defiled themselves like this (Ephesians 5:4-6).  The Children of Truth must put this unclean practice to death, so they will be with the Man of Truth, when he returns to this Earth to pour out the wrath of the Father of Truth on those, who do things like this (Colossians 3:4-6).  The Father of Truth will destroy those who carry on this unclean practice, just as surely as He destroyed those in Sodom and Gomorrah for forming wrong partnerships for love (2 Peter 2:6-10).

So the Children of Truth are to avoid everything that the Father of Truth calls unclean, just like they are to avoid wrong partnerships for love, and wanting stuff that belongs to other people (Ephesians 5:1-3).  They are to keep their right partnership for love clean, by being holy like their Father, and avoiding this unclean practice of sex during this wrong time for love (1 Thessalonians 4:4-7).

Lastly, due to the first two reasons, it is just plain disgusting to have purposely have sex with a woman during the monthly issuance of blood.

Once a woman stops her monthly issuance of blood, then it is still the wrong time for love until seven days after the bleeding has stopped (Leviticus 15:19-28).

The uterine lining protects both the mother and the baby during pregnancy.  For this reason, the uterine lining is not normally changed out during pregnancy.  However, if pregnancy does not occur, it has to be changed out.  This occurs by the old uterine lining being shed during the time of the monthly issuance of blood.  After the the monthly issuance of blood ends, then the new uterine lining is built.  This rebuilding of a new uterine lining takes about a week to finish.  So both mother and baby are protected during pregnancy, by a man and his wife avoiding sex during this wrong time for love.

It is also the wrong time for love, from the day a woman gives birth to a boy until forty days have passed (Leviticus 12:2-4).  If a woman gives birth to a girl, then it is the wrong time for love, until eighty days have passed (Leviticus 12:5).

Pregnancy and child birth takes a lot out of a woman.  It takes time to rebuild everything back to the point of being able to safely go through pregnancy again.  For the sake of the woman, her reproductive system must not be stressed with sex during this rebuilding process.   This rebuilding process takes longer for a girl baby than a boy baby, because a girl is a lot more work to build than a boy.  After all, a girl baby is born with a built-in people factory, while a boy baby is only born with a starter kit.

So the woman must be given time for her body to rebuild, after the uterine lining is shed, and after pregnancy.

So this is the wrong time for love, because a man should love his wife as much as he loves his own body (Ephesians 5:28).  This is the wrong time for love, because a man should love his wife as much as he loves himself (Ephesians 5:33).

It is also the wrong time for love when people are preparing to come into the prescence of the Father of Truth (Exodus 19:9-15).

This being the wrong time for love will also be shown when all of Jerusalem will mourn for what their ancestors did to the Man of Truth (Yeshua HaMashiach aka Jesus Christ), when he returns to this Earth, so they can return to being in the prescence of the Father of Truth.  Every man will separate himself from his wife, while they both congregate with people of the same sex, when they seek to come back into the prescence of the Father of Truth (Zechariah 12:10-14).

The reason is that the issuance of the seed that comes out of a man during sex, also involves death and filth.  If the woman conceives, then all of the sperm cells, but one, will die in the uterus.  Otherwise, every sperm cell will die in the uterus.  Any sperm cells that spill out, will die from contact with air, once they are no longer in the protective environment of the seminal fluid.  Anything that dies begins to decay.

So like the death of the uterine lining, the death of the sperm cells, means that a man cannot even come into the prescence of the Father of Truth, if he unintentionally has an issuance of seed while he sleeps (Deuteronomy 23:10-14).

So the death of the sperm cells that results from sex, makes both the man and his wife not clean enough to come into the prescence of the Father of Truth, until they are cleansed from contact with the sperm cells (Leviticus 15:16-18).

A man and his wife must be clean when they seek to come into the prescence of the Father of Truth (Leviticus 15:31).

In like manner, it is the wrong time for love, when a man or his wife are drawing into the prescence of the Father of Truth by fasting and praying, because they must avoid sex to do so (1 Corinthians 7:3-5).

A time for fasting and praying to come into the prescence of the Father of Truth, when it is not the wrong time for love due to the monthly issuance of blood, can only happen if the man and his wife both have agreed to abstain from sex for this purpose (1 Corinthians 7:5).

The wife has a right to sex, and she can even sell her right for one night to a second wife of her husband, if she so desires (Genesis 30:14-16).  This is even true, when a man marries a woman that he bought to be his servant (Exodus 21:7-11).  Also the wife owes her husband sex as much as he owes her sex (1 Corinthians 7:2-4).  So neither spouse can neglect giving their partner sex during a time for fasting and praying to come into the prescence of the Father of Truth, without the permission of the other spouse.

When the agreed time of fasting and praying is over, then the man and his wife must fulfill their obligation to each other, provided that it is not the wrong time for love due to the monthly issuance of blood, to avoid putting each other in a place of sexual temptation (1 Corinthians 7:2-5).

In like manner, it is also the wrong time for love, during any day that the Father of Truth commands that people come into His prescence, like the Day of Atonement, when people are commanded to congregate together in His prescence and fast (Leviticus 23:27-32).

So the right time for love between a man and his wife is any time, when it is not the wrong time for love due to the monthly issuance of blood, or due to his wife recovering from pregnancy, or due to an agreed upon time to abstain from sex for coming into the prescence of the Father of Truth.  The right time for love is any time, except for these times, when either a man or his wife are in need of sex (1 Corinthians 7:4).

So the right time for love is during the times mentioned above, after a man and a woman come into a right partnership for love through marriage.  Anytime before they come into a right partnership for love through marriage, is the wrong time for love.

This is so foundational, that one of the bare minimum requirements for Gentiles to remain in the House of Truth, is to not have sex outside of marriage (fornication) (Acts 21:25).  Those who have sex outside of marriage are worthy of death (Romans 1:29-32).  In fact, men and women should not even touch each other, before it is the right time for love (1 Corinthians 7:1).

This is not unrealistic, and it is not unachievable.  My own daughter and son-in-law did not even kiss each other on the mouth, until the moment when our pastor said, "You may now kiss the bride".  Neither one of them has ever kissed anyone else on the mouth.   My son and his wife had a similar experience. This is the way of the Father of Truth.  My youngest daughter is also doing the same thing.

The Spirit of Truth (Ruach HaQodesh aka The Holy Spirit aka The Holy Ghost) can produce this kind of self-control (temperance) in anyone who comes into the House of Truth (Galatians 5:22-23).

The Spirit of Truth makes it possible to meet these righteous demands of the Law of Truth (Torah aka The Law) (Romans 8:2-4).  It is not possible for anyone to meet the righteous demands of the Law of Truth without the Spirit of Truth (Romans 8:5-8).  The Spirit of Truth lives in everyone who comes into the House of Truth, so they can overcome the demands of the world to be involved in sex, when it is the wrong time for love (Romans 8:9-11).  The Spirit of Truth leads the Children of Truth to put to death every involvement in sex, when it is the wrong time for love (Romans 8:12-14).  The Spirit of Truth assures them that they will have inheritance in the kingdom of the Father of Truth, if they remain in the House of Truth (Romans 8:15-17).

Anyone can come into the House of Truth by surrendering control of their life to the Man of Truth because they believe that his Father raised him from the dead (Romans 10:9).  The Man of Truth lives in everyone who comes into the House of Truth (Galatians 2:20).  So everyone who comes into the House of Truth has the strength to wait for the right time for love in this present world (Titus 2:11-14).

Come into the House of Truth!





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